Our families shape us in various ways for good or not so good. The traditions, habits, world views, hereditary health, height, all sorts of things both genetic and environmental can often be traced back to our family of origin.
Most of the time, the discussion about family legacies centers around things that negatively impact us: emotional distance, high blood pressure, racist views, miserly behavior. Things we ought to address one way or another. We are advised to break the chains of legacy behavior. And there is wisdom in that.
I think, however, it is equally important, maybe even MORE important to consider what positive legacies we have received from our family of origin. Even if it is the benefit of a bad example! Grin.
When I consider my own family of origin, one of the great benefits I have is to have known my grandparents and one of my great-grandmothers. When you are able to observe generations together it is easier to see generational legacies.
As adults we have the opportunity to decide what is important enough to pass on to and model for our own children and grandchildren. I do find it much easier for whatever reason to directly model positive legacies for my grandchildren. It’s been interesting to see the things my dad modeled show up in my children and their cousins. And the way they treasure him.
Consider what you’ve received and what you want to be intentional about passing on. The people of God have been given much that is of great value.
Just Sayin' 